About Me
I Don’t Help People Cope.
I Help Them Change Permanently.
I’m Alexandra. Twelve years, over 2,600 clients, more than 9,000 hours of one-to-one work.
But numbers aren’t why you’re here. You want to know who you’ll be sitting across from, and whether I understand what you’re carrying.
I do. More than most.
How I Got Here
I started as an academic: English, Italian, Applied Ethics. I’ve always needed to understand things at the root, not the surface.
The road from there to here wasn’t straight. There were chapters I wouldn’t have chosen.
So I didn’t come to this work from a textbook. I came to it from the inside. I know what it’s like to understand your patterns perfectly and still be unable to shift them. And I know what it takes to change at the root, because I’ve done it.
What I Actually Do
Think of a bramble in your garden. Cut the top off and it grows back. Managing symptoms works the same way.
Most approaches work on thoughts, feelings or behaviour, the part above ground. I work at the root: identity. That’s the unconscious position you’ve been operating from, often since childhood.
While that stays the same, patterns return. Different relationship, same dynamic. Different year, same struggle.
When identity shifts, everything built on it shifts too. Not because you’re trying harder, but because the thing generating the problem has gone.
That’s why clients don’t just say they feel better. They say they feel like themselves.
“Alexandra is a genius. She can make you feel how you want to feel, do what you want to do and be who you want to be.”
– Luke, Doncaster
How I Work
I listen for the structure beneath your story. The thing you almost said. The moment everything else organised itself around. In a Consultation, I can usually see the whole picture quickly, because I’ve had this conversation 2,600 times.
I’m direct. No false comfort, no endless processing. I’m not interested in helping you understand your patterns. I’m interested in changing them.
Anything with an anxious or emotional feeling attached is my specialism. I’m also a certified Mace Energy Method practitioner, because it gets extraordinary results. But I don’t offer a pick ‘n’ mix of therapies. I do this, and this alone.
What You Get
When you commit, so do I. While you’re my client, you have my complete attention. I’m your most dedicated cheerleader.
I work for the person in the chair. Not a parent, a partner, or whoever is paying.
That’s also why I’m selective. I give everything, so it goes to people who are ready to use it.
Twelve years in, watching someone realise the thing they thought was permanent has gone still doesn’t get old.
Properly qualified and why this matters
Hypnotherapy has no protected title. Anyone can do a weekend course and start seeing clients the following Monday. You can’t tell the difference from a website.
So here’s mine:
- Senior Accredited Hypnotherapist and Supervisor, General Hypnotherapy Register (GHR). Other practitioners are supervised by me.
- Member, General Hypnotherapy Standards Council (GHSC)
- Member, Complementary & Natural Healthcare Council (CNHC)
- Member, National Council of Integrative Psychotherapists (NCIP)
- Certified Mace Energy Method Practitioner
- BA (Hons) English and Italian; Postgraduate Diploma in Applied Ethics
The Next Step
If this page has confirmed what you suspected, the Consultation is where we find out for certain. It’s £45, credited in full to your programme.