WHAT I DO
Bespoke hypnotherapy and coaching to resolve anxiety, sleep problems, panic, phobias, confidence, emotions, habits — and smoking and vaping
For people who are finished with coping, managing, and waiting — and ready for real change.
You don’t need more techniques to remember when you’re already overwhelmed.
You don’t need endless talking or another waiting list.
You need the right work, at the right level, with someone who understands how your mind actually works — and knows how to change the pattern that keeps the problem going.
That’s what this work is designed to do.
I work one-to-one, in person and online. We start with a private strategy session to choose the right approach, then we use personalised sessions to shift the subconscious patterns that keep the problem running.
Private Strategy Session
A focused one-to-one conversation to understand what’s really happening and decide the most effective way forward — before any treatment begins.
Bespoke Hypnotherapy Sessions
Expertly personalised sessions designed around how your mind works — no scripts, no generic approaches, no wasted time.
Smoking and Vaping Cessation
Specialist hypnotherapy to break nicotine dependence and the habit loop — whether that’s cigarettes, roll-ups, or vaping.
Clear steps · Private 1-to-1 · No obligation to proceed
Who This Work Is For
This work is for people who know something needs to change — and are ready to stop managing symptoms and start resolving the problem.
If you recognise yourself below, you’re in the right place.
This is especially effective if you’re dealing with:
- Anxiety that won’t switch off
- Panic attacks or sudden surges of fear
- Health anxiety or constant checking and reassurance-seeking
- Poor sleep, insomnia, or an overactive mind at night
- Social anxiety or fear of being judged
- Phobias or specific fears (including flying, driving, needles, spiders)
- Low confidence or self-worth issues
- Overthinking, rumination, or mental loops
- Stress that’s starting to affect your health or relationships
- Habits you feel stuck in
- Smoking (cigarettes, roll-ups, social smoking)
- Vaping or nicotine dependence
- Weight or eating patterns you’ve struggled to change
- Performance nerves (work, speaking, exams, interviews)
And many other issues where the mind gets locked into unhelpful patterns.
This work isn’t for people who want quick tips or coping strategies.
It’s for people who are ready to work at the right level — so the change actually lasts.
Watch how I can help you with hypnotherapy
If you’d rather listen than read, this short video explains how I work, who this is for, and what makes this approach different.
If You Need Real Help - This Is The Fastest Way Out
When something is affecting your sleep, your confidence, your health, or your peace of mind, waiting quietly makes it worse — not better.
Most of the people who come to me have already:
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tried to cope
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been told to “manage it”
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waited months (or years) for impersonal, tick-box therapy
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done “all the right things”… and still felt stuck
They don’t come because they’re curious.
They come because they’re done.
And they don’t want to talk about the problem forever —
they want it resolved.
Why Clients Choose This Over Waiting Lists and Talking Therapy
This work is focused, personal, and designed to create change — not keep you circling the same story.
There are no scripts.
No generic approaches.
No endless revisiting of what already hurts.
Instead, we work directly with the subconscious patterns that keep pulling you back — so change happens naturally, without force.
That’s why clients often tell me this was the turning point —
the moment things finally started to shift.
And This Is the Part Most People Miss
I don’t work with everyone.
I only take on a limited number of clients at any one time, because this work requires focus and space to do properly.
When my diary is full:
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new clients wait
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programme places pause
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availability closes quietly
If you’re reading this while sessions are available, that won’t always be the case.
Limited availability · Private 1-to-1 · No obligation to proceed
How Change Actually Happens — And Why This Feels Different
Most people think change happens when they try harder.
It doesn’t.
Change happens when the pattern that’s been quietly running your thoughts, reactions and behaviours is finally interrupted — and replaced.
That’s what this work is designed to do.
We don’t spend weeks analysing the problem.
We don’t rehearse the story until it feels permanent.
And we don’t give you techniques you have to remember to use when you’re already overwhelmed.
Instead, we work directly with the subconscious pattern that keeps recreating the same experience — so the change begins to happen without effort.
This is why clients often tell me something very specific:
“I don’t have to try anymore. It just feels different.”
That’s not motivation.
That’s a pattern shift.
What This Means For You
You stop bracing yourself.
You stop monitoring how you feel.
You stop wondering whether today will be a “good day” or not.
And slowly, quietly, life starts opening back up again.
Not because you forced it.
But because the thing that was holding you back is no longer running the show.
Client Feedback
What We Can Do For You
I’m Alexandra Vessey – hypnotherapist-in-chief at Alexandra Hypnotherapy – where we can achieve so much more than ordinary therapy.
We’re experts in hypnosis & coaching with a best-rated hypnotherapy clinic in Mexborough in the heart of South Yorkshire – and we’re also online too!
We have a proven track-record in SOLVING:
- Anxiety
- Health Anxiety
- Social Anxiety
- Panic Attacks
- Overthinking
- Poor Sleep & Insomnia
- Fears & Phobias
- Habits
- Weight Management
- Lack of Confidence
- Nerves
- Performance Fears
- Stress
- Relationships
- Anger
- Smoking
- And much more
Our greatest secret: Listening to you, understanding you – and actually helping you.
What happens now?
You need help – and we can give it.
Our first gift to you is a private 1-2-1 complimentary consultation.
Yes, our expertise is freely given while we find the best way to help you.
When we’re happy we can help, we’ll book you in for a blissful hypnotherapy session in the super-comfy chair.
You’ll recline into a deeply relaxed state listening to expert instructions to dissolve your problem.
We usually see clients between two and six times but never ever more than you need.
Will we really help solve your problem?
Ask any of our previous 2,500+ clients who were very glad they took us up on our famous offer.
Yes, we still (for now!) have one of the most generous offers around.
But be aware, this complimentary consultation offer won’t last much longer as demand from our worldwide client list continues to boom.
We will not be able to give our time away like this in the future. (My advice – get in now while you still can).
Even more reasons you don’t want to miss this amazing experience of hypnotherapy
We’re also one of the few major hypnotherapy clinics currently offering IN-PERSON appointments locally, as well as online.
This way you really get that genuine live personal hypnotherapy experience.
We’re in a tranquil private office suite, perfect for hypnotherapy, in the excellent Mexborough Business Centre.
The postcode is S64 9JP – put us in Google and see how easy it is to reach us!
As you can see, it’s just a short drive from Doncaster, Rotherham, Barnsley and Sheffield.
And it’s within 45 mins from Gainsborough, Scunthorpe, Pontefract, Wakefield, Penistone and Worksop.
If you’re here in the morning there’s even a café.
No need to fret about going to some stranger’s house or falling foul of other rules.
Join over 2,500 clever clients and successfully start living your life again by booking your consultation now.
**In return for our free time we have just one tiny request:
We’ll need a £25 deposit to secure your slot.
You can have it back when you come!
I want to feel better!
Please show me your latest availability for my complimentary strategy session so I can feel better ASAP and get back on with my life.
My Most Popular Treatments
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Complimentary Consultation
100% no risk strategy session- An in-depth discovery chat all about YOU to find the best way to solve your issue – totally risk free!
- A complimentary strategy talk to get you the best results.
- Up to 25 mins of our expertise – for free
- Judgement-free. We treat everyone equally.
- Our genuine opinion on whether we can help or not.
- Private comfy office suite for maximum privacy.
Hypnotherapy and EFT
Put your feet up in the comfy chair & relax- 100% bespoke hypnotherapy session exclusively designed to solve YOUR issue.
- Expert hypnosis from a professional with over 9,000 hours 1-2-1 experience.
- No one-size-fits-all hypno scripts.
- Full dedicated hour of the best treatment.
- Private comfy office suite for maximum privacy.
- Payment plans available for a course of sessions
Smoking Cessation
Quit smoking for good in just two hours- Complimentary no-risk consultation to find the best way for YOU to quit for good.
- Secret strategies to eliminate cravings
- Uncover what has really kept you smoking – fears of weight gain etc & solutions to eliminate those worries.
- Two hours of expert hypnosis for stopping smoking from TWO professional hypnotists.
- Save yourself ££££s. The average smoker makes their money back in a month.
Five-session Treatment Offer
Save £25 on a full treatment course- Save £25 when you commit to a full course of treatment up-front.
- Book all your appointments in advance and save worry about availability.
- Maximise your success by increasing your commitment to acheiving your desired outcome.
- Enjoy FIVE 100% bespoke hypnotherapy sessions with full peace of mind the costs have already been covered.
- Cover more than one single issue.
Help For You
If you’ve found this page from Google, you’re probably looking for the best hypnotherapy for anxiety, panic, insomnia, phobias or habits.
(We help with lots of other things too – see the list! – but we appear at the top for the best help for anxiety, panic, phobias and sleep)
You’ve probably tried lots of methods before to get help.
Maybe you did that typical course of CBT your GP refers you to when you don’t want medication?
Or worse, they fobbed you off with therapy over the phone, or even TEXT!
As if that would ever solve anything!
Maybe it was another therapy where the person was nice but just went over and over that problem and gave you coping strategies and maybe even told you to live with it (!) – but DIDN’T SOLVE THE PROBLEM?
Solving The Problem
Maybe they helped a bit – or maybe they did nothing for you whatsoever and that’s why you’re looking for solutions again.
They didn’t work because they just go over and over the same story, often ingraining the problem deeper and deeper into your neural-pathways.
Endless talking about it – but not actually doing anything useful to shift it.
We’ve heard it all from clients just like you who’ve been and tried EVERYTHING before finally finding hypnosis and hypnotherapy.
We don’t do that.
We talk about the problem briefly, sure. But then we work through the solution.
How hypnotherapy can help
Hypnosis – sounds a bit magical, right? (Actually, it’s pretty simple and has clinically-proven benefits.)
You close your eyes and it’s all better
Maybe you’re already imagining how brilliant it would be when you no longer have that problem?
You’re thinking about what it would feel like to be able to do what you want and live normally again.
What would you give to feel great, or good, or simply normal?
Most people we help say they would give anything just to even feel normal.
Now what if the first step cost you nothing?
You’d certainly snatch our hands off for a complimentary** consultation – our expert help at no charge to set you on the path, yes?
Because if you need actual help for anxiety, panic, sleep or insomnia, low-confidence, habits, weight, performance etc you’d be crazy not to, yes?
You’re one of those people who wants to get on with life and books that appointment ASAP – not just someone who is happy to feel stuck and miserable for even longer, yes?
Don’t delay – we book up fast! Don’t believe us? Check the diary…
Or just ask some of 2,500+ clients who’ve already hit book and were delighted they did.
DELIGHTED CLIENTS
WE DON’T MAKE PROMISES WE CAN’T KEEP.
So we’ll make you this promise:
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Right Mindset, Right Approach – Hypnotherapy Becomes Easy
Just about everything is curable when you have the right mindset and the right approach.
And if we can’t help you with hypnotherapy – we’ll say so.
You won’t waste your time or your money because that’s a waste of our time and we hate that. It gets us down.
We want results as much as you do.
We’re rated as one of the best hypnotherapists for a reason.
That’s where the hugely important best-offer-for-miles complimentary** consultation comes in.
In that session we look at what we CAN do:
We look at what the issue is; how it started; why it keeps happening; what you want to happen instead.
We look at how YOUR mind works and then use our hypnotic toolkit to find the right solution FOR YOU.
Now we’re not mind-readers and we’re not magicians. We can’t just wave a magic wand and make it all better (well perhaps sometimes!) and we’re not playing a guessing game of test the hypnotherapist.
We work with you to find the best route to your solution.
We’re not saying we will cure you with hypnotherapy. We’re saying it is possible and we’ll examine just how likely you can achieve what you want and give you an honest appraisal.
If we can’t do it, we’ll say so.
If we don’t think you’ll benefit, we’ll say so.
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Hypnotherapy Means You Are In Control Of Your Mind
Of course, our success comes from you.
It’s about how willing and open you are to receive expert hypnotic suggestions and hypnotherapy interventions which can change your life for the better.
And strangely, a lot of people wonder whether they be hypnotised.
They don’t realise they are being hypnotised every day while apparently wide awake.
They don’t know the terrible secret that the reason they now feel bad or anxious or scared or helpless etc is that they were negatively hypnotised in the first place.
They don’t know why they feel they can’t do something or stop doing something (like a habit) is the result of previous negative suggestions that wormed their way into their minds until they believed them to be true.
Every single person who can follow instructions in English and who isn’t cognitively impaired can be hypnotised and has been hypnotised whether they know it or not.
What we are going to do is DE-HYPNOTISE you so you get back to how you’re supposed to be.
We’re going to give you back control of your mind.
And we do it by just asking you to focus your attention on our instructions.
Simple.
Of course, we make it a lovely pleasurable experience with a super-comfy chair and a nice warm safe environment (or on your sofa in your pyjamas if you’d rather do Zoom) but it really is something you can do with a bit of imagination and a desire for total success.
Whatever you prefer, book in today. We get full fast.
If you’re browsing here now, it’s because you want help. Do it now. Feel better now!
